but dan how do I have more confidence
[Music]
well the first thing you gotta [ __ ]
change is your [ __ ] boys
[ __ ] that boys you'll never have
confidence right confidence I believe is
something that you need to develop when
I was young I had no confidence when I
first came to Canada I was the invisible
kid I was the kid that was sitting in
the very back of the classroom I would
never put on my hand never asked any
questions cuz I couldn't speak a word of
English I didn't ought to connect with
people I didn't know how to talk to
people so I had no confidence I would
finish I remember clearly I would Vint
had no friends I was finished class I
know with my little little backpack I
would look look look on the floor I
wouldn't make make eye contacts with
anybody because I was afraid to connect
with people and I wouldn't talk to
anybody I just go home and every single
day was like that and I want to make
sure I walk on this I along the locker
versus walk in the center because I
wanna I don't want to bump into anybody
and was so afraid they're people you
would even want to ask me a question I
was so afraid of people so I had no
confidence and use fast forward today
what I do and how I do these things and
and with millions of followers on social
media and my businesses and my
accomplishments and whatever the hell
that those things are confidence is
developed I know for a fact I'm a
[ __ ] walking breathing example of you
can develop confidence but sometimes
will confuse confidence with arrogance
they think Oh does that mean that's the
prick that that arrogance that their
their attitude that's confident that's
not confidence like all this lady money
you see that in my show a lot right the
puffer macho like look at how [ __ ]
tough I am
that's not confident that's [ __ ]
insecurity it's only insecurity people
insecure people would like me to puff up
and say how [ __ ] good aiya
you're [ __ ] good I don't need to puff
up to know that I can [ __ ] kill you
you don't need to do that right you
don't need to do that in martial if
you're a good fighter you don't need to
do that you lose you let me show you how
tough I am
it's not like that
because that's not the enemy the enemy
is yourself with teen so off-track
comeback confidence
confident comes from confidence how
could you get confident confidence if
you suck at everything you're not good
at anything
you don't have no skills you have no
direction of course you have no
confidence very simple and the problem
is in your life the people around you
the role models that you have not role
model just the people around in general
think about the people around you
parents relatives friends how many of
them have confidence not the boney types
not those motion how many of them truly
have inner self confidence condom not
many and those are people around you so
you learn from those people of course
you have no [ __ ] confidence but when
you develop their skills when you
develop their confidence when you're
good at what you do you feel good about
what you do you do more what you do and
people tell you that you're [ __ ] good
of course guess what then you get more
and more confidence when I was learning
how to do public speaking when I went to
my very first Toastmasters meeting I had
no confidence I was so afraid my my my
face was pale I was shaking outs reading
from the [ __ ] strip and I couldn't
deliver speech I was starter and I
couldn't do it but I kept at it and kept
at it and I kept at it and got a little
bit better and it got a little bit
better and it got a little bit better
until one day someone someone from the
audience told me afterwards Oh
Daniel you're pretty good at this oh I'm
pretty good at this
yeah you're pretty good at this I think
you could speak up oh thank you so much
I'm honored Wow and once I hear more of
that kind of validation more and more
validation get build my confidence get
my bill think of confidence like a
[ __ ] lights a brick one brick at a
time not overnight but one brick at a
time you build that you build that and
you ask you even I'm a mistake I [ __ ]
up a lost money in business all this
[ __ ] I build it back out and we cover
get gave me more confidence you know
what I could do this once I could do it
a second time I could do that a third
time I know for a fact that I didn't
create it I didn't accomplish my success
by default
I created my success by design that
gives me confidence knock on wood I
could lose everything tomorrow I know
that I could make everything back and
more not because the money because of
Who I am
that's confidence draw me and in the
world that speaks English there has a
capitalist system US UK America Hong
Kong China you [ __ ] whatever you name
it I can make it and plus more that's
confidence that comes from Kong that's
true confidence that's why it's not this
illusion of oh yeah all this
maybe yeah how do I get that you get
[ __ ] good at what you do you have
confidence how could you not have
confidence when you're so good at what
you do that's a problem with young
people you're not good at anything oh
I'm so [ __ ] good no tell me the
[ __ ] truth
you're not good at anything there's no
substance
you have no foundation right besides
jacking off in front of computer what
else to do do you do nothing that's the
[ __ ] problem once you have that once
you can do that confident comes and no
one can take that away from you no one
can take that away from that you own
when you can approach anything a
business deal any venture any business
with their unshakable confidence nothing
stops you nothing stops you and that's
what you need to get to so how do you
develop confidence I cannot give you
confidence watching beat is not gonna
give you confidence [ __ ] do [ __ ] make
[ __ ] happen their internal confidence
you give yourself no one can take that
away so comment below ask me a good
question ask a question with confidence
maybe I'll answer it all so confidently
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