when you're stuck in life when you're
stuck in business usually the issue that
you think is the issue may not be the
issue what I mean by that and give an
example imagine this is what you know
this is what you know this this is what
I know your ego your experience your
existing current believe most people and
notice is very very small
they're very close minded this is what
you know now imagine this what's around
you this this is what you don't know
this is what you know this is what you
don't know
now I want you now if you're watching
this video I want you to look around the
old room think and think about the for
maybe the four corners your surroundings
what's around you go ahead do that think
about your surroundings everything
that's around you much further much
bigger that's what you don't know you
don't know so this is what you know this
is what you don't know this is what you
don't know you don't know what happens
is when you feel stuck you are trying to
solve your problem or get out of your
situation with what you know but you
don't know what you don't know and you
don't even know what you didn't know
that you don't know that's what I'm
talking about
and that's why you feel stuck I love a
call from Albert Einstein we cannot
solve the our problems with the same
thinking when we created them it's the
same idea it means your awareness is low
and you try to solve problem with this
is what I know and you try keep solving
their problem try to get unstuck with
what you know that's why it doesn't work
because you have you're not aware of
this and you're not aware of that and
that's why there are people who are dumb
there are people who don't know they're
dumb there are people who know their
time there people who are dumb and they
think they're smart which is the most
dangerous so the four types so how do
you don't do that how do you get unstuck
is very simple it's awareness what I
mean by awareness is
is possibility it means you have to have
more knowledge more data more
possibility more choices so you can
solve the problem that you have whatever
you get stuck on it could be business it
could be relationship it could be
personal relationship it could be your
your life it could be communication it
could be whatever it is it doesn't
matter because if you only have two
three possibility two three answers that
you could use to solve this problem and
you are not expending your awareness
simply means giving yourself more
choices giving yourself different a
different angle looking at the same
thing what you don't know you don't know
and the more possibilities that you have
the more you expand your contacts the
easier for you to get unstuck let me
leave you with one thought if you are
stuck when you're stuck instead of just
working harder and harder and harder
with what you don't know to solve that
issue to get unstuck just look at look
at it from a totally different
perspective it means maybe it's reading
that book maybe is talking to a
different person who's gone through the
same path maybe it is going to the
seminar
maybe it's watching one more video
something that happens something that
shifts your mind something expensive
possibility that gives you more choices
give you more different possibilities
right give more data different knowledge
different experience from different
people suddenly what you know expend oh
wow there's a lot of things that I could
actually do this is not the only way if
I lose my girlfriend I don't have to
kill myself
they're actually a lot of other choices
hello right if I'm not increasing my
cells oh my god
maybe this is I suck I tried this but
actually did and 30 40 50 other things
that that you could try and test and
implement but you don't know what those
30 40 things are and as you get more
mature you get wiser you notice they're
actually another 300 things I could do
that's why people come to me they say
hey Dana I'm stuck I said okay so I said
what have you tried
I'll try everything
as you try everything yeah I try
everything okay tell me how many things
you've tried well I tried this and this
and this so you should try five things
little tell me try everything try five
things I said then all I do is I
tell them what they don't know they
don't know have you thought about these
five other things oh okay I never
thought about it okay go do those
problems off they get unstuck not
because I am so spectacular and I'm so
amazing it's simply because what they
know is so limited and what I know has
just because I've been around the block
well I have much more experience I could
see things from a different perspective
so that's how you get unstuck